The Self-Driven Child: The Science and Sense of Giving Your Kids More Control Over Their Lives
"Instead of trusting kids with choices. . . many parents insist on
micromanaging everything from homework to friendships. For these
parents, Stixrud and Johnson have a simple message: Stop." --NPR
"Important and timely. . . An essential book for parents and educators everywhere." --Sir Ken Robinson, New York Times bestselling author
A
few years ago, Bill Stixrud and Ned Johnson started noticing the same
problem from different angles: Even high-performing kids were coming to
them acutely stressed and lacking motivation. Many complained they had
no control over their lives. Some stumbled in high school or hit college
and unraveled. Bill is a clinical neuropsychologist who helps kids
gripped by anxiety or struggling to learn. Ned is a motivational coach
who runs an elite tutoring service. Together they discovered that the
best antidote to stress is to give kids more of a sense of control over
their lives. But this doesn't mean giving up your authority as a
parent. In this groundbreaking book they reveal how you can actively
help your child to sculpt a brain that is resilient, and ready to take
on new challenges.
The Self-Driven Child offers a
combination of cutting-edge brain science, the latest discoveries in
behavioral therapy, and case studies drawn from the thousands of kids
and teens Bill and Ned have helped over the years to teach you how to
set your child on the real road to success. As parents, we can
only drive our kids so far. At some point, they will have to take the
wheel and map out their own path. But there is a lot you can do before
then to help them tackle the road ahead with resilience and imagination.
Product details
- Hardcover 384 pages
- Publisher: Viking (13 February 2018)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0735222517
- ISBN-13: 978-0735222519
- Product Dimensions: 16 x 3.2 x 23.6 cm